Sit and talk

Some people say that silence solves the problem. But its not true in all the situations. Sometimes silence increases the problem. When people argue for small reasons, they fight over it and then stop talking to each other. This is not good especially in family arguements. The only aolution to solve it is to sit and talk.
Most people think that its the toughest thing to do. But its the easiest way to solve the dispute. It takes a minute or two to solve a problem but many of us dont do. There are few reasons for why people dont prefer this way. Some people are afraid to talk, some people dont talk due to their pride and some people has no idea of what to do.
Later they realise that they could have solved the problem but its too late but until then the problem evolves and that makes it more complicate to solve.
The very first thing to do is to think with a cool and neutral mind. The next step is to talk to him/her. Even he/she will have the same problem or may be waiting for you to start.
Talking  and convincing others is an art. The way differs for different cases. I will talk about convincing different people in another post, including convincing parents, boyfriend/girlfriend, friends, colleagues, strangers and boss.

Is communication development destroying relationships?

Communicating has never been so easy. One can contact anyone at anytime as everyone got a mobile phone. But do you really know that it is also responsible for many fights and break ups. 

Until the 60’s, people had to travel for hours to talk even if the person is in the same city. But after the 60’s, people got the fixed telephones. But now we have a phone which we can carry anywhere. Today, if we heard that someone is talking or doing something against us, then we will call him or her and fight in the phone. But in those days people had to travel to speak to them and that time gap helps them a lot. Generally people should take some time before they argue with someone but thanks to the advanced technology we don’t like to waste our time in thinking. The time allow people to think a lot like whether what we heard can be right or wrong, Is he or she really did that or what he or she has done is right or wrong and about how to deal with it without hurting him or her. When you deal with any problem without thinking, then you will definitely screw it up and later will regret for it. 

When you talk in phone you cannot understand everything he or she wanted to say as you will not let him or her to talk.

Another important problem in dealing with any problem over phone is that, he or she cannot express everything. Communication not only includes language and talking, but it also body language, the expression we see directly. Sometimes we cannot explain everything in words. Humans are using non verbal, gestures and other kinds of communication from thousands of years and all the animals are using it from millions of years. It is really important to talk directly instead of talking over phone.