Communicating has never been so
easy. One can contact anyone at anytime as everyone got a mobile phone. But do
you really know that it is also responsible for many fights and break ups.
Until the 60’s, people had to
travel for hours to talk even if the person is in the same city. But after the
60’s, people got the fixed telephones. But now we have a phone which we can
carry anywhere. Today, if we heard that someone is talking or doing something
against us, then we will call him or her and fight in the phone. But in those
days people had to travel to speak to them and that time gap helps them a lot.
Generally people should take some time before they argue with someone but
thanks to the advanced technology we don’t like to waste our time in thinking.
The time allow people to think a lot like whether what we heard can be right or
wrong, Is he or she really did that or what he or she has done is right or
wrong and about how to deal with it without hurting him or her. When you deal
with any problem without thinking, then you will definitely screw it up and
later will regret for it.
When you talk in phone you cannot
understand everything he or she wanted to say as you will not let him or her to
talk.
Another important problem in
dealing with any problem over phone is that, he or she cannot express
everything. Communication not only includes language and talking, but it also
body language, the expression we see directly. Sometimes we cannot explain
everything in words. Humans are using non verbal, gestures and other kinds of
communication from thousands of years and all the animals are using it from
millions of years. It is really important to talk directly instead of talking
over phone.
