Is communication development destroying relationships?

Communicating has never been so easy. One can contact anyone at anytime as everyone got a mobile phone. But do you really know that it is also responsible for many fights and break ups. 

Until the 60’s, people had to travel for hours to talk even if the person is in the same city. But after the 60’s, people got the fixed telephones. But now we have a phone which we can carry anywhere. Today, if we heard that someone is talking or doing something against us, then we will call him or her and fight in the phone. But in those days people had to travel to speak to them and that time gap helps them a lot. Generally people should take some time before they argue with someone but thanks to the advanced technology we don’t like to waste our time in thinking. The time allow people to think a lot like whether what we heard can be right or wrong, Is he or she really did that or what he or she has done is right or wrong and about how to deal with it without hurting him or her. When you deal with any problem without thinking, then you will definitely screw it up and later will regret for it. 

When you talk in phone you cannot understand everything he or she wanted to say as you will not let him or her to talk.

Another important problem in dealing with any problem over phone is that, he or she cannot express everything. Communication not only includes language and talking, but it also body language, the expression we see directly. Sometimes we cannot explain everything in words. Humans are using non verbal, gestures and other kinds of communication from thousands of years and all the animals are using it from millions of years. It is really important to talk directly instead of talking over phone.

Education: going away from America

Can you believe that the literacy rate of our nation's capital is less than the literacy rate of a developing country's average city? Take any city randomly and compare it with Washington DC. You will know our position in the world. One third of the population in Washington DC is illiterate.

We have the same problem in every state.  Only one fourth of the population has a college degree. Most of them are students from foreign countries. Even most of our colleges prefer foreign students. They go around the world in search of students as if we don’t have people in our country. Why don’t they search within the US? We got more than 300 million people in our country. But we can’t blame the colleges and universities. The problem is not in them, the problem is in us. We don’t give importance to our studies. We allow foreigners to overtake us. They come here to get education. Some of them get back to their country and some of them get a job and work here as our boss. Education is important for any individual as well as the country.

We also lack in understanding mathematics and science compared to others around the world. This is a problem of our education system. We need a change in the education system. That can be done by government. We need to learn a lot from other countries as well. I have been to 32 countries and learned many things, in which we are lacking in.

The parents have the duty to educate their children. Don't blame the government for everything. And don't allow children's to decide everything on their own. They should be the decision maker for their life but you should help them in deciding the right thing for their life. Tell them the pro and cons of every step.

We are proud of many organizations in our country as we got organizations leading the world. From business organizations like Microsoft, IBM etc to other organizations like NASA. But do you know that most of the people in all those organizations are from foreign countries.

Another reason for these problems is that we give more importance for entertainment and don’t care about our future. But the last recession cleared its importance. Think about yourself and your future. Take some time to think. Thinking doesn't mean to think while watching TV or while working somewhere. It means be free and alone. You can do it in your room or go to any park, sit and start thinking in fresh air.


We Americans are losing many things in which others are becoming masters. I hope to build a better America.

What is Women's development

Usually I don’t talk about this topic much because I give equal respect to everyone. But I have taken this topic because I don’t see anyone else talking about it.

I have been listening about equal rights to women all my life. Men are ready to treat women equally. But the problem is with women. I respect every men and women who has succeeded in their life (or work hard to achieve something) in any area like scientists, entrepreneurs, farmer, doctor, lawyer etc.

In this century everyone has equal opportunity of achieving anything. Women all over the world wanted to develop them, do all the jobs that men can do and get sane respect. But what are the jobs most women end up with, sales, modeling, acting, anchoring, waitress, etc where the company needs physical attraction to attract customers. Most of the teenage girls aim to become a model or actress. But as they reach their high school they change their ambition as they know that it’s very competitive area and there are millions of girls aiming for it. Is this the development women wanted from centuries? Are women really born for physical attraction? Are they really sex toy for men? (I am sorry to say this. I never wanted to use these sentences).

For centuries women’s didn’t received the respect they needed. But now when men are ready to respect them, they behave as if they don’t want it. I know many women who have achieved great things and many women who have dedicated their life for some purpose. I respect them all, but that list is not big enough. What an average girl or women care for is make up, attractive dress, and fancy stuffs so that boys or men will look at them. Why don’t they aim to invent something or starting a business or achieving a top level position in a multinational corporation?

Farming: the future of the world

For those who have farm land, don't sell your farm land. It can help you in the future. No matter how much we humans develop, we still need food to live. All over the world people are migrating from villages to cities to develop themselves. In many countries more than 20% of the people are living in cities.

In our country, we are importing many goods which we can grow or make in our country itself. But we don't have people for it. If it continues, our country will be in big trouble in a decade. It’s not only for our country, but entire world will be in trouble.

 It’s the time when the remaining farmers will be rich. Soon all the multinational companies will be concentrating on agricultural business. Many of them have already started. So it’s good if people start concentrating in agricultural activities. The more we start importing, the more our dollar value fall and that may crash the stock market.

I spent all my life in the city but I always wanted to live a country life. I own some piece of land in my town which was owned by my grandpa. But he is no more and that land is mine right now. I rarely go there as it is in the other end of the country and I live in another end of the country. Many of my friends said to sell it as land are in demand for factories. But I don't wanna sale my grandpa's land. Another problem is that, factories will damage the land and soil and its surroundings. I am trying to hire farmers and do the agriculture in it. People around me says that, its a waste of time and money but I can see future of our country in the farming.

In a decade, agricultural business will be the top most sector for every country. Scientists are working on farming in the buildings in the cities because they know that in future we will have a big demand for agricultural land and products.

America need Americans

America is always known as the best country for the immigrants all over the world. Every year thousands of people immigrate to USA for job or studies. Some of them return back to their country and some stay here. But there is a problem with those who stays here. They don’t call themselves as Americans even after they get American citizenship. That’s a big problem in America. Many of us are still Chinese American, Indian American, German American, Italian American etc. We don’t want half Americans. We need complete Americans.

Just because you are born or your ansectors born in a place doesn’t make you half citizen of that country. If it is so, we all ( the entire human race) is origin from somewhere in Africa.Shall I call everyone half African or claim for African citizenship. The people of Africa will kick me out if I ever ask for African citizenship.

I see many people live in a group and call themselves and their group with other country name. we don’t want little countries in America. Its not good for our country.  If you are American then be American. We want a single nation and everyone in it to be together.

I want Americans to work together and develop each and every individual in our country. We don’t want immigrants any more. Yes, I know that America is always welcomes immgrants. Our forefathers were also immigrants. My great great great grandfather was an immigrant from Europe. I am an American and I am proud to say it.

I am not against immigration or immigrants. People who know me know how much I love world peace and many other countries. I love travelling around the world. I got a lot of friends all over the world. I have been to 32 countries and know 18 languages. But I am an American and I want my country to be at the top of the world forever.

New businesses can save America

Our country is facing many problems now like recession and unemployment. Starting new businesses can solve these problems. Any kind of legal business from small to large. But the important point to note is that you should hire our people. Don’t hire foreigners. I am not an anti-immigrant. But I want American companies to give preference to Americans. Many companies hire foreigners as they are ready to work with less salary. It can cost you less but its not good for our country.

We got thousands of unemployed people and that’s not good for our country. America is losing its status in the world. Its no more a super power nation as we think. The world don’t respect in the same way as they used to respect us decades ago.

 Its an advice for people who are looking for new jobs to start a new business instead of looking for job. I don’t know whether you get a job of your talent or not but you can create new job opportunities to other people. Use your creativity and come up with some new idea for a new business. Not everyone is a Bill Gates, Steve Jobs or Mark Zuckerberg. But everyone has the same brain. The only difference is that they used it and we didn’t.

Think hard, who knows you may be talented enough to change the entire world. Don’t waste your important time. Think creatively, no matter which field you are in. We are the descendants of the same people who made America as the superpower of the world. We have the same power and talent. Prove yourself to be better than new immigrants.

It doesn’t mean to fight with or hurt the new immigrants. I mean prove the world (and especially to the new immigrants) that we are talented then them. There are plenty of things to achieve. A little thinking can change your life.

Importance of Saving money

I always suggests people to save money and have some fixed percent of income for savings. Some of them took my advice, some of them didn't but realized it lately and some of them ignored it and not realized it yet.Those who realized it later asks me for suggestions.

Many people in our country would have realized it in the recent recession. But for those, who still didn't realized it, no one can save them especially when we are in another recession before recovering from the previous recession. There are plenty ways to save money.

Prepare a budget every month. This will help you in analyzing your expenses and avoid unwanted expenses. Budget is an important tool to manage the money for every family. Write down all the upcoming expenses for a month in the budget and work accordingly. Also note down each and every penny you spend throughout the month and then compare it to your budget.

Contribute to your retirement and savings account as much as possible. Also invest some part of your money anywhere you like. Read other posts. You will get some ideas for savings and investments. If you want some tips then contact me in Ask Me section.